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Saturday, 19 May 2012

The Blame Game: To yourself be true.


Shifting blame on others is the preferred escape route for  proud persons  who know they are guilty of offences  or they have failed to reach an expected goal , but  they are unwilling  to admit  guilt  or blame for their crimes  and for their self-inflicted failures and misfortunes.
The ability  to lie, to criticise  and  to shift blame  on others would depend on the extent  to which a man's conscience is seared and the extent of  pride and self-delusion  in the mind of the accuser.
Speaking lies in hypocrisy; having their conscience seared with a hot iron;" 1 Timothy 4:2.


Some people allege that  their problems were caused by  those who they think have the influence and power to transform their  lives , but they have failed to help them.
Accusers would deny  their  faults , blaming others. It   is  , always, "his or her fault" ; but  never "my fault".


Usually, blame or reprimand comes with a penalty, which for most people is an unpleasant  burden because they do not want to be blamed and penalised for their misdeeds; especially if they knew that their guilt  and punishment  will be made public .
When they are desperate  to escape liability,  there are people who  have no qualms about heaping  all their blame on others.
Preferred  targets for blame  are  parents , the  government , the  rich and successful persons , teachers,  bankers, social workers , spouses,  the Police and Almighty God .
The carnal man would  resort to  lying and blaming others  when faced with the dire consequences of their actions . They would resort to any and all  means